My Update

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Registered: 07-02-2003
My Update
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Fri, 08-29-2003 - 10:45am
Hi everyone,

As many of you know, OM moved a few weeks ago...so we are only in email contact now. And they are the sweetest emails and definitely brighten my day. Nevertheless, I had said that I would not do LD with OM...

So I'm waiting for things to calm down for me (I'm moving soon, starting a new job...), and I want to give OM time to adjust to his new job/life before I end things.

So sometime in the next month, I am going to muster up the courage to break OM's heart...if I don't, I am afraid that this A is going to continue forever.

Until then, I am going to watch my inbox for his loving words!

All the best,

Alameda

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: alameda78
Fri, 08-29-2003 - 10:57am
alameda -- i'm sorry you feel you have to end the A. i know it would be hard to maintain a LDR. but until then, enjoy his emails and maybe a few phone calls too.

and good luck with the move and new job! congratulations for taking control of your own life and obviously making it better.

take care,

gurl

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Registered: 07-24-2003
In reply to: alameda78
Fri, 08-29-2003 - 12:46pm
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Edited 4/26/2004 2:35 pm ET ET by boston53
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: alameda78
Sat, 08-30-2003 - 8:53am
Hi Alameda,

You knew in the beginning that this was the decision you were going to make at the end of the summer. At the very least, I hope you enjoyed the summer and that you are still confident this is the right decision for you. As I recall, OM also agreed that this R may never get beyond what you had this summer. So bask in that.

Best of luck to you in your upcoming move and new job. Do keep us posted on that front, too!

take care,

lily