My wonderful day with mm

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Registered: 09-04-2003
My wonderful day with mm
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Wed, 09-10-2003 - 9:26pm
I just had the most wonderful day with mm. He came over first thing in the morning & crawled into bed with me. We slept for a little while & then, well, you all know. Then we got on his motorcycle & drove about 45 min's out of town and went to lunch. We took our time driving home along the lake and both of us where aching when we climbed off of the bike. But I love it anyway. We came back inside and curled up on the couch and I dozed off while he just held me. When I woke up he said he liked having me curled up with him like that. It was just so nice to spend the whole day with him like that. We enjoy our time together so much, that neither one of us wants the day to end. I can't wait until he leaves and I can enjoy my man every night and every morning. He's my soulmate, plain and simple. I am lucky in the aspect that he goes way out on a limb to spend every spare moment with me. See we work together so we see each other for 8 hours a day. Then he makes sure he comes by after work & on our days off. People are so talking about us at work, which isn't the best since my soon to be xh works there. In a totally different part of the plant, but there. He's asked me about mm before, but deny, deny, deny! Anyhow, mm plans on leaving very soon. Not soon enough for me. I do get very impatient at times. But that's just me. I try to control it, but I do ask alot. We've been seeing each other for almost a year now. We've know each other for about 4 years or so. I just wanted to share my night with people who understand. Anyhow, thanks for letting me blab.
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Registered: 08-21-2003
Thu, 09-11-2003 - 12:40am
That sounds like a wonderful day!! I'm glad you are so happy!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 09-11-2003 - 1:27pm
hi dreamer. i love your post. it's so sweet and you sound soooo happy. don't ya just wish that day could go on and on and on.... so you're separated and divorcing, but MM isn't yet? is there any timeframe for him leaving? i know you're impatient to start your life with him. enjoy ALL the time you have now. we never know what the future holds. i hope everything works out for the best for both of you!

take care,

gurl

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Registered: 09-04-2003
Thu, 09-11-2003 - 9:31pm
Thanks gurlfriend,

I am so happy it brings happy tears to my eyes at times when I look at him. Sometimes I feel like some overly sappy goofball. I feel like if people had to be around us we'd make them sick. Not that I care, it kind of makes me laugh that I've become one of those people. We don't have a date set, but he says it will be very soon. He knows it's getting very hard to watch him leave & he feels horrible when I feel bad. He's had a couple of talks w/w, telling her he's not happy and so on. He doesn't plan on telling her about me, but that's fine, because I don't want that label over us. And I feel as if it will just hurt her more that way. He knows I won't stick around if it really bothers me and he doesn't do anything about it. But for now I'm content & willing to give him time to get up the courage.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 09-12-2003 - 12:53am
Hi Dreamer,

Thanks for sharing! Big (happy) sigh.

I love those times, too, when we can spend time together, doing nothing really but simply enjoying the day and each other's company.

I can tell you are enjoying every moment with MM!

Meow