It's interesting how I wondered about my_name_is_K as well. Go figure huh more then one affair. Anyway I'm also intrigued about Myrasfriend. I'd like to know her story as she also posts little barbs from time to time. If she reads this let a girl know.
What you say is obvious and all who are in As are already aware of it.. sun rises from the east... yes, obviously it does..deceiving is wrong.. really now?
The MAS people can just put what you wrote in a message, everyone who comes here reads it, sees again the error of their ways, and moves onto happier pastures by repenting and doing the right thing.. now, why didn't they think of that?
No, the point of this board is to support, to talk about the grey areas, to explain behavior, getting past that As are patently wrong and APs should be scarlet-lettered..
And, no, in this board, I've never seen male APs being considered differently than female APs.. no one here judges based on sex or race..as a matter of fact, no one here judges .. period..
You are not the only one who comes to the board passing out judgement and dispensing "solution"s... that's the easiest thing to do.. and now and again, a lurking poster will do that.. quite easily.. the challenge is to realize, as people involved in As, that it is what it is, with all the rights and wrongs, and provide some insight and share experience so that someone can cope a little bit better or understand they are not alone or find ways to get to a better place if that's possible.. if not, just venting and sharing works wonders.. Snap judgements and condoning, they can get that anywhere..
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Hi Mogul,
It's interesting how I wondered about my_name_is_K as well. Go figure huh more then one affair. Anyway I'm also intrigued about Myrasfriend. I'd like to know her story as she also posts little barbs from time to time. If she reads this let a girl know.
Much peace & Love,
Rayne
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AND.. his phone is ringing of the hook! too funny..
K, if you are not needing support, and you're not offering much in the way of support to other users, what is your purpose for hanging out here?
By the way, what exactly is a "love guru" and what qualifies a person to work as one?
anotherseyes
I'm not condoning K's style, but I can see he gets way more attention than people who are always supportive or the "tough love" people.
I don't know what he gets from his posting, but he sure does get a reply, he may have a point, or he's making us "think"?
Lannmann,
What you say is obvious and all who are in As are already aware of it.. sun rises from the east... yes, obviously it does..deceiving is wrong.. really now?
The MAS people can just put what you wrote in a message, everyone who comes here reads it, sees again the error of their ways, and moves onto happier pastures by repenting and doing the right thing.. now, why didn't they think of that?
No, the point of this board is to support, to talk about the grey areas, to explain behavior, getting past that As are patently wrong and APs should be scarlet-lettered..
And, no, in this board, I've never seen male APs being considered differently than female APs.. no one here judges based on sex or race..as a matter of fact, no one here judges .. period..
You are not the only one who comes to the board passing out judgement and dispensing "solution"s... that's the easiest thing to do.. and now and again, a lurking poster will do that.. quite easily.. the challenge is to realize, as people involved in As, that it is what it is, with all the rights and wrongs, and provide some insight and share experience so that someone can cope a little bit better or understand they are not alone or find ways to get to a better place if that's possible.. if not, just venting and sharing works wonders.. Snap judgements and condoning, they can get that anywhere..
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Very well said, nevereasy!
anotherseyes
Much peace & Love,
Rayne
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