NC

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Registered: 04-06-2010
NC
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Thu, 08-05-2010 - 9:27pm

Hi, all


I have decided to go NC with AP. I can no longer stand the thought of waiting for him. I do not like the sneaking around and the lies I tell to be with him. Yesterday, I told him to please respected my wishes and not to call me. That when I am good and ready I will call him.

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Registered: 08-05-2010
In reply to: lady_still
Thu, 08-05-2010 - 11:07pm

"If a person is causing more heartaches then pleasure then it time to say Good bye"


Those are words to live by in these relationships.

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Registered: 02-06-2010
In reply to: lady_still
Fri, 08-06-2010 - 1:07am
if u really mean this, create a list of pros and cons about your relationship w/him and post it on your mirror in the bathroom to remind urself why u have made this decision. also, wear a rubber band on your wrist and each time u think of him, snap the damn thing. this
when one does not love too much, one does not love enough --blaise pascal
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Registered: 04-06-2010
In reply to: lady_still
Fri, 08-06-2010 - 6:11am

Thank you for your kinds words..I am going to take it one day at a time. Yesterday seem like

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Registered: 03-30-2010
In reply to: lady_still
Fri, 08-06-2010 - 10:28am

I admire your strength Lady! I'm actually happy for you and feel that down the line you will find peace & comfort in your decision in NC. Its going to be tough as you already know but I know it will be worth it for your sanity. I want & need to be where you are. I have to take that NC step myself but its like speaking to an addict. I have to find strength to remove myself from him, to get him out my system. I know it will happen though. I'll be ready soon...


Wishing you all the best life has to offer!

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Registered: 05-19-2010
In reply to: lady_still
Fri, 08-06-2010 - 2:16pm
Sending lots of strength your way!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-06-2010
In reply to: lady_still
Fri, 08-06-2010 - 2:47pm
I am in day 9 of NC...it hurts and it is hard...but I have to remind myself I am stronger than the situation I put myself in. You can do it:)
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Registered: 03-29-2010
In reply to: lady_still
Mon, 08-09-2010 - 7:28am
How is it going Lady? I'm wishing you strength!

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