NC for 9 days and it's SO frustrating

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Registered: 01-30-2009
NC for 9 days and it's SO frustrating
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Fri, 03-06-2009 - 4:14pm

In the last email that I received from him he stated that he would call.

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Registered: 10-25-2008
Fri, 03-06-2009 - 8:40pm

Old Timer,

I totally agree with you. Men can be so stubborn and clueless. I find myself having to call him more than he calls me to find out when we are getting together etc. When we are together, we talk, we make love, we talk some more, etc. He seems to be into me. We agreed that we would talk one time a week. I asked him point blank if he wanted to cont the A and he said he did. I thought maybe he was avoiding me, but he said he was not. He did call me a few times at first and did send me a text at Valentine's Day so I know he is trying, but DAMN!! I called him on Tues, Thursday and Friday to tell him a few dates that he was asking for. He answered on Tues and said he would call back - nothing...never picked up his phone on Thursday and Friday...I was so pissed. I left a message and told him how frustrating it is to get ahold of him and that we both agreed to talk once a week..not for hours..just a few minutes. I told him that I know how busy he is, etc but that I need to talk to him once a week. So we will see.

I believe that I am definitely more into him than he is into me. That has never happened to me before. Makes me feel bad for how I treated some of my old boyfriends.

Just pick up the damn phone. This is my first A ever so I am not really sure how to react...I don't want to come across too needy, but I am afraid I am....I want to meet up with him on Thursday, so I will not call him until Wednesday unless he calls me first....yea right!!! Hang in there..you are not alone.

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Registered: 02-23-2008
Sat, 03-07-2009 - 10:44pm
This behavior is hurtful--I have been there and am now with my lover
who is the opposite and it shows the saying is true--If a man wants something he makes the time for it....you both deserve better--take care.
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Registered: 07-17-2004
Tue, 03-10-2009 - 11:24am
I totally know how you feel.
 
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Registered: 03-13-2009
Fri, 03-13-2009 - 5:25pm

I have been there. In the first 3 yrs mine stopped contact 11 weeks twice. We saw each other socially but no other contact. I mean no even a slight hand touch or tweek. Men are stubborn and and maybe with time he will come around. I never pushed just waited. I have been in this affair 10 yrs in Sept.


KYwoman

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