Need advice

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Registered: 12-21-2008
Need advice
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Fri, 11-20-2009 - 12:04pm

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Registered: 11-18-2009
In reply to: rsrdrgz8
Fri, 11-20-2009 - 12:32pm

You have already apologized and it sounds like it was sincere. That is all that you can do, it is up to him whether or not to accept your apology. Don't grovel and beg his forgiveness, you are way above that.

I did have a similar issue with my MM. He did get upset and I apologized..ONCE...then I explained to him that I have a LOT of time at home alone and sometimes my curiosity gets the best of me and there is no way he can possibly understand how I feel or go through being in love with a MM and it's a done deal and there is nothing I can do to undo it.

Stand firm....he's just got his panties in a wad and needs to get over it, which he will if he truly cares for you.

Chin UP.
ITD

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Registered: 11-13-2008
In reply to: rsrdrgz8
Fri, 11-20-2009 - 1:47pm

I dont have an advice but was warned about this when i started posting on this board about 2 years ago.What if my AP comes across this site and figures out that its me!!! I have been careful about what i post,so that even if he finds himself reading my posts,he doesnt feel hurt in the sense that i am talking behind his back or saying something which will hurt him.The things which i post are special to AP and me,they belong to us, which shouldnt be shared on air ( lack of word )with anyone,its ours.
I guess,your AP being hurt is genuine.He must have been shocked to find you there and doing private messaging to unknown people and one of them being him !!
You have apologized but i guess it will take a while before he can be himself again and trust you.Its an A and it itself comes with so much emotions and on top of this,i cant say much.
Are you and him both M? How long have you been together?

( P.S. i do change some of the facts when posting about my AP and me.We had a DDay and do worry the W finding us again!!)




Edited 11/20/2009 1:48 pm ET by lovingdoll2008
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Registered: 12-21-2008
In reply to: rsrdrgz8
Fri, 11-20-2009 - 2:46pm