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| Fri, 02-20-2004 - 2:58pm |
I have been having an affair with a MM for 2 years. I need some advice people, I am as confused as they come. We have had some humdinger fights. Not physical but verbal. Oh he can be mean with that mouth but then so can I. My question is I wonder is it really love on his part. I worship the ground he walks on but feel pushed aside at times. He swears he loves me but his W is his business partner even though he acually has controling interest.
Ok, you know he is just a mean mouth, now for the things I have done to him! (I think this classifies my as a B---h!) Last summer, big argument, so I made a CD with voicemails of him telling me how much he loved me and wrote his W a 4 page letter with details of the affair and told her to cram him up her butt!!! (HAHAHAHA)
He stayed away for 3 weeks, then came back to me saying he loved me and he wasn't giving me up, but stayed with her.
Now, 2 weeks ago he got an attitude with me, started that BS mouth again, pushing me away type thing, saying he was to busy to talk to me, lying again, so guess what?
Yep, but this time it was a phone call to her, I told her details he couldn't get around. She told me if I wanted him to come get him, he was right there when I talked to her. Oh he was mad!!!! I told her no-way she could have the A Hole. I just wanted to let her know that her saint had never given me up.
He stayed gone this time for 1 week, he called and told me I had hurt him but he loved me so much he had to have me.
Today I told him its time to make a choice, her or me. I want an answer by sunday.
People do you think this man acually loves me or is he yanking my chain? I wonder after all this why he comes back if he don't. By the way he is absolutely gorgeous so he could get another playmate if that is all it is. Please help me better understand.
Ok, you know he is just a mean mouth, now for the things I have done to him! (I think this classifies my as a B---h!) Last summer, big argument, so I made a CD with voicemails of him telling me how much he loved me and wrote his W a 4 page letter with details of the affair and told her to cram him up her butt!!! (HAHAHAHA)
He stayed away for 3 weeks, then came back to me saying he loved me and he wasn't giving me up, but stayed with her.
Now, 2 weeks ago he got an attitude with me, started that BS mouth again, pushing me away type thing, saying he was to busy to talk to me, lying again, so guess what?
Yep, but this time it was a phone call to her, I told her details he couldn't get around. She told me if I wanted him to come get him, he was right there when I talked to her. Oh he was mad!!!! I told her no-way she could have the A Hole. I just wanted to let her know that her saint had never given me up.
He stayed gone this time for 1 week, he called and told me I had hurt him but he loved me so much he had to have me.
Today I told him its time to make a choice, her or me. I want an answer by sunday.
People do you think this man acually loves me or is he yanking my chain? I wonder after all this why he comes back if he don't. By the way he is absolutely gorgeous so he could get another playmate if that is all it is. Please help me better understand.

hi peachpie and welcome to the board.
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
You hit the nail on the head about him being a coward and I should dump him.
Talk about drama! This gorgeous hunk of man has that image we all crave, the bad boy, yet very responsible business man. Hehehehe, I am as hard headed as they come, I love him so much I hurt and swear I am going to dump him but all it takes is that every morning phone call to light up my world. I think the reason I did the things I did was to show him I don't take no crap and that I could play games too. He knows I will jerk a knot in his world in a minute. I am not child and neither is he, we are both 45. But I know and now so does he that I will not be #2 to anybody, he has until sunday to decide which one. Oh and by the way, he has been married to the hag for 22 yrs and that is spread over 3 marriages to her. How do we say it in Georgia, if you have been married 3 times and have the same in-laws you might be a redneck, hehehehe I think he is labeled. Here's his sign!!! But I do love the jerk so much. All in all is he a cakeman or does he love me or is he a drama king. If he hurts me again and I drop him I am going to do the ultimate bomb drop just for the simple fact he wrecked my heart and he is not going to get away with it. I told him so when he came back this week. He says that I have his heart and I know it, I need to have the body too. Keep me informed. I will you.
oh my girl, you pull no punches down there in georgia!
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board