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| Sat, 11-01-2003 - 5:59pm |
I can really use a friend to talk to right now.I posted a post about needing advice dearly and now I'm just hurting.Om told me his fiance is back from being out of town and so now we can't see each other or talk outside of work.He said she should only be here untill the end of this month.So he more less put me on hold untill then and now I'm hurting alot.I thought I could use the time to think this whole mess over and possibly feel less for him but I don't think that is going to happen.I just long to be with him so much. I hate him yet I like him alot.What do I do?Any input would be nice.I understand that he can't get away from her but yet I'm still pissed off at him.I feel less close to my h because of this mess I'm in and he asked me what was bothering me and I just said I feel I'm getting sick or something that I'm not feeling very well.Doing the family thing right now is kinda hard but I do the best I can to enjoy it because of my kids.Having an a really is not worth the s--t you have to go through so why in the heck do we do it?

but i guess the only reason i wud have for being or getting into one is that we don't have control over being attracted to someone or falling in love with someone at any stage in our lives and our preferrence on how far we're willing to go to achieve the happiness of being with the person we're attracted to or in love with.
does anyone have any happy endings or success stories of how well they're balancing H and EMA or if they've been able to over time, completely break away from one or the other? i really need to hear some right now.
I'm going through the same thing right now. Your right feeling less close to dh and not wanting to be doing the family stuff is just hard. i'd rather be alone to think these days. I understand your pain, Really do try to take the time to think through just what you want....and refresh your self, best wishes you to hon, I do not know why we do this to ourselves either, wish i knew that answer...but love is a powerful emotion.
Wishing