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| Thu, 10-30-2003 - 8:37pm |
meanwhile, i work closely with a guy who's two yrs older to me and have grown to like him a lot being he is really a very nice person. i think we're both attracted to each other - i don't think its in my mind since i've caught him looking at me almost everyday. he has a great sense of humor, is pretty decent looking, sensible and does give two cents about me. however, he recently moved in with a girl after knowing her for a month after being single for more than a year, coming out of a prior relationship that lasted 5 yrs. he seems to be able to talk to me very easily about his personal life, and i am able to talk to him about mine. i know i care about him a lot and i know he cares at least a little for me.
need to hear your thoughts on whether it would be better to invest some more time in my marraige and try talking to my hubby abt doing something abt our marraige again or try and see how i can safely explore the possibilty of something more than a healthy relationship with the guy from work - and what is the safe way to explore a relationship between friends or co-workers?

But you did help me realize that i may have been unknowingly giving out cues to him when all i really wanted to do was talk. Now i feel completely embarrased if that's what he's going to think!!!!