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Need advice on ending it
| Sat, 03-07-2009 - 6:39pm |
I'm at the point where I want to end things with AP of 2 years. The last 6 months things haven't been as great..in my opinion. Contact is less and less, and I feel like more of a convenience for him, even though when we're together he says he loves me and I do believe him. He's been under a tremendous amount of stress due to work which has all culminated this week (don't want to go into detail). I feel like an absolute tool wanting to walk away at this point where he is so down.

((Hugs)) It is hard in deciding to end a relationship....even if it is an affair. What's best for you is what should matter the most. I highly recommend stopping by the EAS board.... there are a lot of ladies in the same situation and who have loads of wisdom to share. If at this point you're putting in more effort, there's something wrong with that, regardless of what's going on in his life. Don't make him a priority if he's only making you an option. Nothing's worse than feeling like you don't matter as much anymore to someone, I know. If you're serious about ending it then NC will be the way to go. It's hard...it really is...but it also sheds a lot of light on the situation.I'm over a month of NC and it's really put things into perspective. Are you married? Kids? Anyhow, again stop by the EAS board and introduce yourself. We're all here to support each other!
((Hugs))
Sock
I agree with Sock. I am on the EAS board and it's where you need to be now. Relationships are hard enough with people who are available to each other. With the added stresses to his life you're better off walking away. I'm afraid it will only get worse and why put yourself through that misery. A's are no-win situations in my opinion. I know people on this board would disagree and they have a right to their opinions. But if you're feeling neglected..it's time to move on.
Stay strong...
Logan