need advise

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Registered: 07-28-2003
need advise
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Tue, 01-27-2004 - 2:46pm
I made a big mistake and need some advise. I cheated on my boyfriendof 3 years with his best friend. To make this situation worse his girlfriend is my best friend. It was a one time thing that happened when we were completly drunk. Should I tell them or just keep it our secret? What would you do to deal with this?
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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: wildtng510
Tue, 01-27-2004 - 3:52pm
Take it to your grave with you, sister!!!!!! NMR
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Registered: 01-21-2004
In reply to: wildtng510
Tue, 01-27-2004 - 4:21pm
is there the slightest possiblity of it happening again?
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Registered: 01-25-2004
In reply to: wildtng510
Tue, 01-27-2004 - 10:42pm
Why tell? All it will do is cause hurt and pain. You were drunk and it was mistake. Just make sure it doesnt happen again.

Mama

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Registered: 01-27-2004
In reply to: wildtng510
Wed, 01-28-2004 - 12:05am
Don't say a word - Suck it up and deal with the guilt. Telling him/her won't alleviate ANY of your guilt and will just ruin a bunch of friendships. If he leaks it - Simply DENY DENY DENY - Say he's crazy and you don't know what the hell he's talking about. Sounds cold, I know.