Need a good excuse to get out of house!!

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Registered: 10-16-2003
Need a good excuse to get out of house!!
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Fri, 10-24-2003 - 10:26am
Sounds silly but I can't think of a believable excuse to get out otf the house....my "friend " and I want to meet soooo bad...but I need help on what to say to get out of the house....at least for a few hours in the evening!!!! HELP
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Registered: 04-15-2003
Fri, 10-24-2003 - 10:30am
hi harley do have any girlfriends you could go have bite to eat or do workout you could you sya to your H you going to workout for little bite to night.good luck sweetie hope get to be with your om tonight. hugs kimmy
kimmy
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Registered: 05-13-2003
Fri, 10-24-2003 - 10:34am
Can you go for a coffee and girl talk with a "girlfriend"? If you say your friend is going through a rough time and needs someone to talk to. Make sure that it isn't a really close girlfriend though or she just might call while you're out! Hmmm, I don't know!! I'm not at the stage yet to have to do that.....and I might never get there!! (long story!)

good luck!

"blue"

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Registered: 10-24-2003
Fri, 10-24-2003 - 10:48am
What i would do, was tell my H that it was girls night out, that i had "too much to drink" and was going to stay over night. He never suspected a thing, probably b/c in our younger years, we used to do that! otherwise, I would have to "work late". Most of the time, my MM and I would get together during Lunch, extended lunch i guess. Good luck sweety!

sassy
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Registered: 10-16-2003
Fri, 10-24-2003 - 10:59am
this is hard to believe but I never go out....always home....need to start changing this ...H doesn't like for me to go out...thinks every man wants me...well, I know of one that does !!!! harley43
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Registered: 09-09-2003
Fri, 10-24-2003 - 8:18pm
Sign up for a yoga class at your local community center, about $30 gets you 7-8 weeks, at least 2 hours for one night a week. Then you don't have to prove that you made something or painted something. I did, only I am going to the class lol.

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Registered: 05-17-2003
Fri, 10-24-2003 - 9:18pm
Hi Harley,

Do you work? If you do has H met EVERY woman that you work with? If not,GOOD! I have used going to a Tupperware Party,Pocketbook Party, Pampered Chef Party, taking a girl from work out who is leaving, dinner and shopping with a friend from work, girls night out with work friends. With the Holidays coming if you can get a few gifts and leave then in the trunk when he's not with you then tell him you are going straight from work to do Holiday Shopping and you'll get a bite while you're out. Use you imagination. Make sure that the "party" your going to,etc.. is the same distance away in mileage as where you will meet with your man. That way H can't question the odometer reading in your car, because it jives. If your going two towns away with your man say your going two towns away only H will tink you are going South two towns and in reality you are going North two towns. Get the picture?!

Good luck to you!

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Fri, 10-24-2003 - 9:25pm
You are good beachbabe. But if her H is like mine, she will get 20 questions when she gets home lol. If I say I am going with a friend or my sister to the show or something he always quizzes me. I hate being put in the hot seat. He even acuses me of having an affair at my gym everyday at lunch!! Then I offer him to go with me (because nothing is happening there, believe me!!). He turns my offer down every time. So now I have the yoga class. Believe me, thatis the LAST place on earth he would go lol.
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