In need of Help

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Registered: 03-09-2004
In need of Help
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Tue, 03-09-2004 - 1:51pm
I am a happily married woman. Who is in need of advise. I met this guy at work who makes me feel something I haven't felt in a long time. I get the bugs in my tummy and everything. I want more than anything to persure our ongoing flirting. But am not sure if I should. I am only 24 and married because we had children. I do love my husband but I feel something more with this other man. I don't plan on leaving my husband just seeing what it is like to be with someone esle I guess. The OM just makes me feels so special. I know he doesn't want anything more because he is married too. He to is young with children and I believe that we are looking for our youth in a way but still I want him more than anything and don't know what to do. Please Help "B"
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Registered: 02-16-2004
In reply to: ippityup
Tue, 03-09-2004 - 2:11pm
Hi ippityup and welcome to our board. I am not sure how to respond since I am in an A with a MM. You said that you are still in love with your H and that you are happily married. Is curiosity the main reason you are interested in this other man? Hey, I still get butterflies when I see my MM...it's because I'm in love with him. Are the feelings you are having love? It's so hard to understand how another person feels since everyone is so different. I would only suggest that you follow your heart...if your marriage is fine and you love your H, I would suggest keep it that way. That is only my 2 cents worth. If you love your MM, you will have to decide what is more important. Some people are in a happy R with both a H and a MM. I wasn't in that kind of situation. The best of luck to you.
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Registered: 01-21-2004
In reply to: ippityup
Tue, 03-09-2004 - 4:36pm

hi ippityup and welcome to the board!

CL-Gurlfriend50

Co-CL of My Affair Support Board

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Registered: 03-09-2004
In reply to: ippityup
Tue, 03-09-2004 - 9:04pm
Thankyou for the addvice. I understand what you are saying and I think I am just going to go with the flow of things. I mean I will not push things unless I feel they are right. I guess the only thing I can do is follow my heart. thanks again and I will let you all know what happens.