Need help gals...and guys

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Registered: 02-16-2004
Need help gals...and guys
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Tue, 03-02-2004 - 12:12pm
I will be seeing my MM this weekend (for the whole weekend....YEAH ME!!!)...anyway, I want the time we spend together to be extra special, so if you could sort of give me some fun, creative and romantic ways you prepare for your time with your MM/MW, let me know. Time we spend together is rare and precious and I want to make it even more memorable. I'd especially like input from the men on our board....

BTW, if I get any extremely creative ideas and I use them....maybe I'll have some fun stories to share next week! LOL!

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Registered: 01-14-2004
Tue, 03-02-2004 - 12:40pm
I'm so happy for you. I recently got an entire weekend with my OW and it was an incredible experience. Of course, I could have spent the entire weekend just sitting and talking with her and I would have felt the same way.

I'm not sure what the situation is regarding where you will be able to spend time. Unfortunately we had to spend our time in a hotel room. But one thing I did was light about 20 candles throughout the room and spread rose petals across the bed. I am a traditionalist I suppose, but it was a very special and romantic moment. She went weak in the knees when she saw it. :) Plus rose petals can be a lot of fun to tickle one another with. ;)

Other than that, the best moment we had was when we went to the city and were able to just sit on a couch in a restaurant lobby and hold hands and laugh together. I'm going to start crying if I keep thinking about this so I'm going to wrap this up. I know my idea isn't completely original, but sometimes things are a classic for a reason. Good luck and I hope your weekend is all you want it to be and more.

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Tue, 03-02-2004 - 12:46pm
Omaha, I love your idea....we will be at his house, actually, so it will be very intimate. You are such the romantic.... In fact, he is very much the type to go the way of candles and rose petals, so who knows? Perhaps he is even planning this himself. I'm game for any other ideas you have.....grab the tissues, honey, and cry anyway. Sometimes love will do that to you!
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Registered: 07-24-2003
Tue, 03-02-2004 - 1:06pm
Interesting about the rose petals. I did that too only she was in a bathtub and I tore the petals off and let them fall into the water. She said that I made her feel like a queen. And it actually makes me weak in the knees when I recall how great that was.

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Tue, 03-02-2004 - 1:10pm
The vision sort of reminds me of the bathtub scene in "American Beauty." You guys are too romantic.
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Registered: 07-24-2003
Tue, 03-02-2004 - 1:31pm
Darn, I thought it was my own unique way of showing my love. I haven't seen "American Beauty" but I take your word for it. She liked it nonetheless.
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Tue, 03-02-2004 - 1:34pm
Oh, no...Boston....it was all you! Movies are great, yes, but reality is much, much, MUCH better! ;)
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Registered: 09-16-2003
Tue, 03-02-2004 - 2:06pm
My OM always does candles and chocolate. Yummmmm :) I love music so there is alway radio in the background when we make love. WE burn CD's for each other too. I usually keep my CD's at his place, so I don't have to hide or come with an excuse to bring it home.
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Tue, 03-02-2004 - 3:28pm

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Tue, 03-02-2004 - 4:02pm
I hope I have a juicy story for you all on Monday. The advice has been great! I've already got something special picked out to wear.....and as long as he is as loving and seductive as he usually is when we're alone, there WILL be a good story (or two...or three...or more)!
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Registered: 07-24-2003
Tue, 03-02-2004 - 4:38pm
I think that women tend to overrate lingerie as a trigger. Tight jeans or a miniskirt and high heals are a huge turn on for me.

But then sometimes it doesn't matter at all. All it takes is for her to give me that "special" look, or a touch - and I don't even notice what she is wearing.

I can't believe I am saying all this on a public board. I honestly don't understand what possessed me today.

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