Need help gals...and guys

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Registered: 02-16-2004
Need help gals...and guys
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Tue, 03-02-2004 - 12:12pm
I will be seeing my MM this weekend (for the whole weekend....YEAH ME!!!)...anyway, I want the time we spend together to be extra special, so if you could sort of give me some fun, creative and romantic ways you prepare for your time with your MM/MW, let me know. Time we spend together is rare and precious and I want to make it even more memorable. I'd especially like input from the men on our board....

BTW, if I get any extremely creative ideas and I use them....maybe I'll have some fun stories to share next week! LOL!

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Registered: 02-13-2004
Tue, 03-02-2004 - 4:51pm
I agree with attorneygal -- lingerie is a huge turn-on for me.
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Registered: 01-14-2004
Tue, 03-02-2004 - 4:52pm
For me, she can be wearing sweats for all I care. One look into her eyes and I melt. She is so stunningly beautiful and we are so comfortable together that everything feels so natural. I could spend hours exploring her body. Wait...we were talking about clothing weren't we...never mind. ;)
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Registered: 02-16-2004
Tue, 03-02-2004 - 4:53pm
No, Boston! I love getting a man's perspective. Girls can share a lot of tips, but if you want to know how to woo a man...go straight to the source. Thanks, sweetie!!
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Registered: 02-16-2004
Tue, 03-02-2004 - 4:55pm
You guys are killing me! Y'all are the best! Maybe I'll just light the candles, sprinkle the rose petals myself for my man, and pull him over to the....well, you get the picture. I'm hoping that'll be good enough to get things going....LOL

Thanks for the tips!

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Registered: 01-24-2004
Tue, 03-02-2004 - 7:28pm
Lingerie is always the way to go! I purchased this giftwrap set through Fredericks of Hollywood's OnLine site but if there is a store near you, I'm sure they have it there (will save you the cost of shipping and handling.)

http://www.fredericks.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=Holiday2002&category%5Fname=Sexy++Sets&product%5Fid=91482

Go over his place in your normal attire with just the bow necklace showing. Make him comfortable and put on a slow song and give him a lil striptease. Make him unwrap the rest of the present though (the panties have velcow-spelling?-sides). Have Fun!!!!

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Registered: 02-03-2004
Tue, 03-02-2004 - 8:02pm
You are so lucky !! Have fun !!

You got great advice here . All these things I do with my MM and he loves it . especially the lingerie , high heel shoes and a striptease .

Candles and sensual music is always a must !!

Strawberries , chocolate and whip cream can add a bit of spice

Nice oil for a massage and foot massage lotion is always a plus .......guys think they don't want it but once you start they start to purr like a cat ;-)

xoxo ViperDiva

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Registered: 02-03-2004
Tue, 03-02-2004 - 10:03pm
And don't forget stockings & garter vs. pantyhose... We see each other in concerts. The first time I wore stockings, I made sure he (and only he) knew that's what I had on. He said later that it drove him nuts.. in spite of the buttoned up black suit I wore over it.
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Registered: 07-24-2003
Tue, 03-02-2004 - 10:48pm
How to woo a man... God, we are not all that hard to please. Just be affectionate, playful, a little coquettish. Most importantly, make him feel desired and loved. Nothing else is needed, really.
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Registered: 02-16-2004
Wed, 03-03-2004 - 8:23am
Thanks, Boston. I absolutely intend to make him feel special! ;)

I'll keep all of you posted.....thanks for all the awesome advice!

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Registered: 01-21-2004
Wed, 03-03-2004 - 11:03am

boston is totally right!

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