need input from you!

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need input from you!
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Mon, 07-26-2010 - 11:12am

Ya'll know better than most about this crap!


AP is going thru a lot emotionally.

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Mon, 07-26-2010 - 12:23pm
I personally think the fake account is a good idea. At least you'll get some truth. But don't fish for anything you're not ready to face! And if you go ahead and fish anyway, don't confront him unless you're absolutely sure he thinks you're a different person on AM and he has absolutely shown interest in this fake person - maybe even set up a meeting. Then YOU can show up - kind of like that cute little song where the and g/f runs an ad and her own b/f answers - not knowing it's her - and they meet each other thinking they are different people. Except in that song they just think it's funny, when in real life I think they would both be MAD LOL. Also, don't let him convince you that "he knew it was you all along" either...

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Mon, 07-26-2010 - 12:30pm

yeah lexi.

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Mon, 07-26-2010 - 12:42pm
That would be interesting to see! Although, even if he won't meet on a Wed. because he has "plans", it won't hurt you any less, I don't think, if he meets the fake you on Thursday or another day.

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Mon, 07-26-2010 - 2:56pm

I'd be mad, and a little hurt, too.


I agree with lexi: set up the fake account, and see what happens.

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Tue, 07-27-2010 - 1:08pm

Well he replied.