Need Opinions

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2009
Need Opinions
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Mon, 09-14-2009 - 5:58pm

Hello I'm new to the board and also new to having an A.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2009
Mon, 09-14-2009 - 6:18pm
Hey can't say much besides I feel your pain. You have to go with your head about what you feel like you want to do. I could say "dump him" But then I'd have to say the same to myself. AP was doing the same to me, but today wanted to meet at lunch and we did. Ours is more sexual which is fine with me, but I do understand when they say lets do this and then back out. I wish I could offer more assistance.....
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2009
Mon, 09-14-2009 - 6:26pm

Thanks for the reply.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-07-2009
Tue, 09-15-2009 - 12:57am
He may be protecting himself as he is single and you are married. Just a thought.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2009
Wed, 09-16-2009 - 4:51pm
That makes sense as there is more of an emotional connection being established between us now. I feel like he's definitely keeping me at arm's legnth. We haven't seen each other in three weeks. But still we talk everyday. I think the only reason I have not lost interest yet is because he gives me just enough to keep me happy.