He wants to keep you as a 'booty call" but it has to be on his terms and he doesn't want to deal with any of your dramas. You have already proven to him that no matter how much you dislike his treatment of you, you're still there taking more. We teach people how to treat us. You have two choices, either you accept it "as is" or walk. I would walk.
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."
you are going to get many different answers telling you what they think. the only person who can give you the answer you are looking for is your AP. flat out ask him what he's looking for. lets say it's fwb, can you live with that, or maybe it is just an honest drink and a friendship.just ask him.
Hmmm this guy sounds pretty flaky. You deserve to be treated better and I think your initial take on it is the right one, rock star - don't keep people around that don't treat you well and respect you, which is not the case for this guy... hugs and lots of courage sweetie.
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."
- Ramona L. Anderson
I agree with godess, we teach people how to treat us.
Hmmm this guy sounds pretty flaky. You deserve to be treated better and I think your initial take on it is the right one, rock star - don't keep people around that don't treat you well and respect you, which is not the case for this guy... hugs and lots of courage sweetie.
trix xo