NEED QUICK ADVICE

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-05-2004
NEED QUICK ADVICE
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Mon, 04-12-2004 - 4:04pm
I dont know if I want to be in this A anymore. If I decide to continue I need someones advice. I am M and so is he. We got drunk the other night and I really cant remember what happened. I usually play like everything is cool between us. I let him call me and I play like I dont care what happens with us. I am worried I actually told him how I am starting to feel. Dont say this is good. I dont want to drive him away by getting too close too soon. I am scared I actually said things to him that I should have not said. Should I ask him what I said if I decide to talk to him again or should I just forget it.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-15-2004
In reply to: shopwme
Mon, 04-12-2004 - 5:19pm
So, you're not sure if you want the A anymore, but on the other hand you don't want to push him away by getting too close too soon. Hmmm!

I say, just wait it out. See if he brings up the other night to you first, and also what his reaction is toward you.

Other than that, I don't really have much advice because I'm not sure what you want to happen. That happens to the best of us around here, so don't worry!

Take care

Red