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| Fri, 04-17-2009 - 12:23pm |
I've bounced around from MAS to EAS and back to MAS. Now I am not quite sure where I belong. Some history AP
| Fri, 04-17-2009 - 12:23pm |
I've bounced around from MAS to EAS and back to MAS. Now I am not quite sure where I belong. Some history AP
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Not trying to be snarky, but am truly curious. Why are you confused at him loving his W and flirting with you when YOU yourself said you love your H. Can't it be that he loves his W the same as you love your H?
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Could be that he doesn't want to give you up entirely, but he also will not bring himself to cross that final line into a full blown PA. He wants to be friends with you because it is exhilarating. You make him feel good. He likes the way he feels with you and he doesn't want to give it up. Likely, he also enjoys the sexual tension that exists between the two of you.
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You know, only you will know when you are truly ready to be done. You won't walk away unless you are truly ready too. It might mean hitting rock bottom. It might also mean that you are just done. Just done being played with. Done being manipulated. Done being hurt. When you are, yes, you will walk away. The thing is, you aren't walking away now. So I think you should ask yourself why. What are you getting out of this that makes you stay?
{Not trying to be snarky, but am truly curious. Why are you confused at him loving his W and flirting with you when YOU yourself said you love your H. Can't it be that he loves his W the same as you love your H?}
Left out the fact that H and I live in 2 different countries. Dont think I would have leaned on AP so much if H and I lived together. I think I turn to AP because of loneliness. I dont know that anybody has brought so many ups and downs in my life. Or rather more down. Oh I am sure he loves his wife a lot . He tells me he has a great marriage.
{Could be that he doesn't want to give you up entirely, but he also will not bring himself to cross that final line into a full blown PA. He wants to be friends with you because it is exhilarating. You make him feel good. He likes the way he feels with you and he doesn't want to give it up. Likely, he also enjoys the sexual tension that exists between the two of you.}
it could be that he enjoys me intellectually and wants me as that available option for whenever he needs to talk to somebody (when hes travelling). I have asked