Need Some Advice

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-24-2004
Need Some Advice
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Wed, 03-24-2004 - 8:10pm
I have been reading everyone's posts for awhile now and decided that I had to ask all of you; your advice.

I have been seening a MM for almost 3 months now. I am single and 34, he is 57. The relationship is kind of difficult in the fact that he is a customer of my company. I only deal with him over the phone at work.

Here is the real problem at hand though, he tells me how unhappy he is, (married 35 years). They have talked about getting divorced long before I ever knew him. My question to all of you that have been through this is, should I believe anything he says? I have been in enough relationships to want to believe that he isn't lying. I have always told him that I would never ask him to get divorced, but I would be very happy if he did. I would think after a marriage that long that even if kids were involved and you weren't happy you would get divorced. I have never been married, but know enough people that have and been through divorce. I just don't know what to think or do. I really care about this man. There is just a part of me that doesn't want to get so attached that I get crushed if he just desides it's over. Any advice or thoughts would be really appreciated.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Wed, 03-24-2004 - 9:04pm


Take eveything he says with a grain of salt, very few MM in affairs leave there wife and ending a 35 year marriage is going to be very very hard for anyone and impossable for most.

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