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| Thu, 03-11-2004 - 3:37pm |
I feel like I am going completley insane.I have not heard nothing from my OM since Monday Night at the motel,We had a wonderful time together and I can't understand why he seems to always disappear after a wonderful time together,he does this about every time then he will call and say I have been real busy and we were getting to close and you are married.We talked pretty much like we had never talked before that night.He would say things like things would be so different if you were not married,I am not telling you to leave your H I am just saying things could be different.He really confuses me I love him so much that it hurts when he doesn't call me everyday I mean I know he is single and he does get busy at his job but I also feel he could call me more than he does.
He always says things like I am afraid we are gonna get caught,and I am afraid of what your H will do to you if you get caught.
Someone please tell me what this man is trying to say to me,I can't read his mind and everything he says makes no since.He goes for 2 weeks straight calling me everyday then all of a sudden he skips a few,it drives me nuts!!!!
please give me your thoughts.
He always says things like I am afraid we are gonna get caught,and I am afraid of what your H will do to you if you get caught.
Someone please tell me what this man is trying to say to me,I can't read his mind and everything he says makes no since.He goes for 2 weeks straight calling me everyday then all of a sudden he skips a few,it drives me nuts!!!!
please give me your thoughts.
Thanks Dimples

I think from what you see on here, it can be really difficult on the single party in an A.
It sounds like he must be a caring man though, why don't you try telling him it upsets you not to hear from him. And maybe you can suggest to him that you are okay with the situation.
You ask "what is he saying"? Well I think you have to listen to what he is saying. He has told you in a way that he's not comfortable with you being M. Unless he can wrap his mind around that, it may be a bumpy ride for you.
Dusty