In Need of Some Advice ASAP Please

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2004
In Need of Some Advice ASAP Please
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Sat, 10-25-2008 - 11:32am

Okay, so I have not posted anything in a really really long time.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2008
Sat, 10-25-2008 - 12:03pm

Pretty new to posting and don't know the details of your A.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-01-2008
Sat, 10-25-2008 - 12:05pm
Ok, I can't tell you how your AP feels, but I can tell you my situation and my take on things.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2004
Sat, 10-25-2008 - 12:20pm

Thank you for your response!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-22-2008
Sat, 10-25-2008 - 1:25pm

I am so glad you started this post!

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-09-2008
Sat, 10-25-2008 - 6:37pm

You are not alone. I do the insecure thing too. But I don't communicate with AP everyday and this has been the case since the start of our A early this year. We only IM and sometimes email. Sometimes he goes a few days and I have learned that this is just how it is. I insist he stays safe, so know if he isn't contacting me, then it isn't safe for him to do so. I only find myself getting insecure when I PMS or when he hits the 3 day mark of NC, which he does regularly.

It's hard. I don't see him everyday, in fact we often don't see each other for 2 weeks at a time and can't communicate every day, but he tells me that just because he isn't in contact, doesn't mean he isn't thinking about me. He tells me that I am his in his quiet times when he wakes up and before he goes to sleep.

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