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Need some advice please
| Fri, 10-24-2003 - 6:43pm |
Hello. I could use some advice. I am 27 years old, married for a little more than 2 years. My husband and I dated for about 7 years prior to getting married, but we never lived together. Now that we do live together, I realize this is not the right relationship for me. I keep trying to stick it out b/c I don't want to hurt him, but it's making me miserable. He simply isn't meeting my emotional, spiritual, or mental needs. And, I've become "involved" with another man whom I really like, though it's still in the initial stages so there's no pressure. However, pre-the new man, I decided my husband and I should at least separate. Now I'm sure of it. But how do I go about suggesting it/telling him? I WILL NOT tell him that there is another person . . . our problems came about before this other person, but I am unhappy. I've always done what has made everyone else happy, and I'm realizing it's okay for me to make myself happy - - the only problem is that I'll be hurting someone I deeply care for. Any advice on how to do this with the least amount of pain possible? I'd truly appreciate it.

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