Read my post- the "I am freaking out" one. We could be writing the same story. I've heard much of what you've heard. I spent time building him up, and he actually told me once I was making him a better husband.
If he wanted to be with you, he'd leave her and be with you. Period. I sound harsh, but I'm saying it as much to me as you. If you are willing to be an ap forever, you're in a great spot. If you want more... go find it.
Read my post- the "I am freaking out" one. We could be writing the same story. I've heard much of what you've heard. I spent time building him up, and he actually told me once I was making him a better husband.
If he wanted to be with you, he'd leave her and be with you. Period. I sound harsh, but I'm saying it as much to me as you. If you are willing to be an ap forever, you're in a great spot. If you want more... go find it.
>But if you are truly in love with someone else, is staying for the kids the right thing to do?<
Continuing a marriage for the sake of the kids is never the correct thing to do.