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| Tue, 10-07-2008 - 1:42pm |
I can't take it anymore.. I had to come back and post here.
| Tue, 10-07-2008 - 1:42pm |
I can't take it anymore.. I had to come back and post here.
So just the past couple of days he's been distant?
i am single..is that why my MM AP asks me me all the time who i been with...(the answer is noone since he and i've been seeing one another) and makes jokes, like "i know all the guys are up on you, come on now"..hmmm interesting...i always take him as extremely confident..but maybe he has some insecurities..funny thing is..i'm a very faithful woman..regardless of if he wants to be to his SO or not....he's loyal..but not faithful.....hmmm things to think about..i didn't realize how hard it must be for him because he very well may regard it as..well she could see someone else when she'd like or go with the wind when she wants to...
you've enlightened me
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
I like you tygerzize, I can connect with you, you seem cool.
When I was 23 and single, I found myself fantasizing about my then boss whose wife also worked for the company.
i love that song...it is so perfect and nicole scherzinger
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
I think that Cubbies hit the nail on the head w/ this guy. I don't want to hurt your feelings or anything either, but like she said this is the perfect situation for a S guy. He takes you to dinner, holds your hand, and makes you feel like H hasn't in SO long, and then he gets what he wants. No strings, no problems. If you M is salvageable work w/ that, and get out of that A fast! You sound like your are really getting attached to him, that is dangerous.
The shear nature of being S w/ a M, SO is very difficult. I know I am S w/ a MM, and I don't see it as having a leg up. Of course being w/ mister ultra smooth doesn't help. If something bothers him or makes him feel insecure I won't know about it until 4 or 5 days later, and I kind of have to put the pieces together and figure out his feelings on my own. I am getting good, but I think it is the nature of our job to not go around shouting "My feelings are hurt!" LMAO that's funny.
Anyway, I would definitely take a breather, and try to look at this from a perspective that is not so recently been tainted w/ lust, passion, and awesome sex. Yeah right I couldn't do it, so I don't know if anyone else could. But I do think that it would behoove you to chill for a while. Hope that helps, even if it's not what you wanted to hear.