need your advice

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2008
need your advice
6
Mon, 10-27-2008 - 9:27pm

After being in an affair for long enough to feel the ups and downs, the happies and sads that an affair brings. After thinking that I love him, I don't think I do anymore.


We met after work today and it had been awhile since we last saw each other. He tells me that we need to spend more time togther, and learn more about each other in person than on the phone, but mind you he is still in his life with his family and so am I.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
Mon, 10-27-2008 - 10:47pm

What do you do?


iVillage Member
Registered: 09-13-2008
Mon, 10-27-2008 - 10:50pm

Well, if it's not what you want anymore then you have walk away.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-27-2008
Mon, 10-27-2008 - 11:16pm

I think you know what you should do.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2007
Tue, 10-28-2008 - 10:53am

I can totally relate to how you feel.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2008
Wed, 10-29-2008 - 6:36am

Thank you for your replies.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-13-2008
Wed, 10-29-2008 - 7:52am

Well, you said that this friendship won't work for you, so maybe it's not a good idea to try and be a friend to him.