need your support

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Registered: 08-13-2002
need your support
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Fri, 09-05-2003 - 6:02pm
I don't know what to say to MM on Monday when he comes back to work. He was off this week, and usually he doesn't call me, and i bothers me that he doesn't. But specially this week because last Tuesday it was my birthday and he was supposed to give me a call, but guess what, he didn't, not even for the all week i even heard from him. It really hurts, because that's the least he could have done for me...I don't know what to say to him. To me what he did prooves that he doesn't care at all. What should i say to him when he calls me? Should i show hurt, or just be strong and keep really distant and not interested to what he has to say? What do you all think?
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Registered: 08-22-2003
Fri, 09-05-2003 - 6:32pm
I know where you are coming from Luiz.....

When my birthday came and passed, and no calls or emails from OM, (despite promises that he would stop by on my birthday) I knew he was busy at home with W and DD's but it really hurt. So I kept distant from him, tried to get him back in to the "you gotta chase me if u want me" sorta mind. At first he had no clue why I was so distant but I broke down and sent him an email that included the line "thanks for remembering my birthday". He finally realized it hurt me and he appologized.