Need your support - LONG

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Registered: 06-27-2010
Need your support - LONG
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Fri, 07-02-2010 - 5:59am

I know what the answer to this whole thing is, but I need to hear it from somebody besides myself.


Shortly after AP and I began talking, I temporarily closed my Ashley Madison account.

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Registered: 03-30-2010
Fri, 07-02-2010 - 12:38pm

Hi Lillyflower,


I think you know the answer already and I would agree that he is full of BS and you should continue following your gut feeling about him. I know its hard believing he can do that with all the wonderful things he's said to you and who knows maybe to some extent he meant them BUT I still feel he has other motives and seeing other people in AM is one of them.


They always have the lame excuse about how he can find the time to play around with all that he has going on. You know that when theres a will theres always a way. He was simply keeping his options open and I'm sure he's still doing so. Not trying to hurt your feelings but at least you know what he's about and it will save you from further hurt and frustration from his part. You did great in deleting all possible contacts to him and when you delete his IM then you will be good to go.


Wishing you well on whatever you decide.


 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2010
Fri, 07-02-2010 - 12:51pm

I'm sorry, lilly.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 06-08-2010
Fri, 07-02-2010 - 1:49pm

Hi lillyflower,


I am so sorry about your situation. The man just doesn't deserve you. You know in your heart that you are doing the right thing. Stay strong and use everything you feel right now to get over him.


The best wishes to you. We are here for you.


iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2010
Fri, 07-02-2010 - 2:19pm

That must have been so upsetting. I also agree that he is full of sh*t.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-27-2010
Fri, 07-02-2010 - 2:58pm

Thanks to all of you for your responses and support.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-03-2009
Fri, 07-02-2010 - 3:32pm

Oh gosh lily. I am so sorry you're going thru this.


I too met my AP on ashleymadison.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-27-2010
Fri, 07-02-2010 - 3:53pm
Can you click on his profile and see when the last time was that he logged in?
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-11-2010
Sat, 07-03-2010 - 3:02am

What a mongrel!


Toss him aside lilly. Find someone who deserves you xxx


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