Needing Support - I have to meet the W!

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Registered: 11-13-2003
Needing Support - I have to meet the W!
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Wed, 01-14-2004 - 9:55pm
I am so excited that I fly out in the morning to meet my MM for two days of fun at the beach prior to a 3 day convention that we will attend together. We are actually going to have 4 nights together, in paradise (with the exception of a few meetings of course.)

We work for the same company but in different areas and we meet while traveling about once a month. We haven't seen each other in about 6 weeks so I am really excited about seeing him.

The problem is ... His wife will fly in and join him for the fifth night! I've never met her or seen her. He will have to move to another hotel room for the last night when she joins him. There is a formal affair that night at the convention. I remember several girls writing about going to the company holiday party and will see their MM's wife. Now, I am in that situation. I'm ready with the perfect low cut, tight, sexy black dress so he can't take his eyes off of me. I just feel like pouting because she gets him on the last night in town for the formal affair and I dread having to look at her with him.

Looking on the bright side, I will have plenty of other male friends there to dance with. At least I will have him for 4 nights and I will make sure my MM's worn out before she arrives in town! Give me advice, encouragement, and your thoughts!!!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 01-15-2004 - 4:02pm
hey girl, this is probably too late as you are probably already gone, but i just wanted to say -- stop with the negative thoughts!! you get to spend 4 days with your MM and that's not enough??!

seriously, enjoy the time together and do not project the what ifs!

gurl




Edited 2/17/2004 9:18:27 PM ET by gurlfriend50