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| Thu, 07-29-2010 - 4:34pm |
New here and would love some advise, input, thoughts…
| Thu, 07-29-2010 - 4:34pm |
New here and would love some advise, input, thoughts…
OMG what a quinky dink. my AP is suggesting that we holiday for august, too. although i am all for it. sometimes these things are draining, exhausting, and we just need a break from the drama (although we live 5 minutes away from each other, grrrr!!). roll with it. if you two are meant to be, and he wants to start fresh, let him. you know he's been dating around while you've been seeing him for 2.5 yrs now anyway, so what's one more month. let him "vacation" but tell him u will be hot and ready for him come labor day weekend.
hang in there. you will have to learn to unequivocally trust him at some point, and starting now is probably the best time to do it.
good luck my dear!
Thank you Marie....
You are right...
I say give him his time & space to tie up all his loose ends and you do the same to heal and find you again. Get back to doing the things you once enjoyed. Get into a sport, hobby, travel,
Much peace & Love,
Rayne
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Thank you....
He said he needs to tie up all his loose ends and thinks its only fair that we start fresh in Sept…
Good Morning I am~
Yes I have to agree with you.
NEW INFO!
I dont know if I should cry or be grateful....
Just got some new information this morning.
Let him go, if he really wanted you 100%, way back when he would have not dated. I know you told him it was ok, but if his heart was tied to you, all would have fell flat, and he would not have kept going back.
In a sense you gave him permission, to play the field. Maybe he wants to tie up enough loose ends, to let his freedom go. But the flags I see make me wonder if he REALLY wants to commit now that the time is closing in...?
Take this time to REALLY LOOK at what you want. Are you leaving marriage for AP or YOU? If AP and you do not make it, are you going to be happy alone?
Best of Luck,
Sunny
Sunny~
These are very good questions....