needs some feedback please!

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needs some feedback please!
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Thu, 07-29-2010 - 4:34pm

New here and would love some advise, input, thoughts…


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Fri, 07-30-2010 - 2:27am

OMG what a quinky dink. my AP is suggesting that we holiday for august, too. although i am all for it. sometimes these things are draining, exhausting, and we just need a break from the drama (although we live 5 minutes away from each other, grrrr!!). roll with it. if you two are meant to be, and he wants to start fresh, let him. you know he's been dating around while you've been seeing him for 2.5 yrs now anyway, so what's one more month. let him "vacation" but tell him u will be hot and ready for him come labor day weekend.


hang in there. you will have to learn to unequivocally trust him at some point, and starting now is probably the best time to do it.


good luck my dear!

when one does not love too much, one does not love enough --blaise pascal
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Registered: 07-29-2010
Fri, 07-30-2010 - 8:14am

Thank you Marie....


You are right...

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Registered: 02-06-2010
Sat, 07-31-2010 - 3:03am
i know the timing aspect of these situations
when one does not love too much, one does not love enough --blaise pascal
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Registered: 03-30-2010
Mon, 08-02-2010 - 3:41pm

I say give him his time & space to tie up all his loose ends and you do the same to heal and find you again. Get back to doing the things you once enjoyed. Get into a sport, hobby, travel,

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Registered: 07-29-2010
Mon, 08-02-2010 - 4:45pm

Thank you....

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Registered: 11-14-2008
Mon, 08-02-2010 - 9:08pm

He said he needs to tie up all his loose ends and thinks its only fair that we start fresh in Sept…

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Registered: 07-29-2010
Tue, 08-03-2010 - 8:24am

Good Morning I am~


Yes I have to agree with you.

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Registered: 07-29-2010
Tue, 08-03-2010 - 9:40am

NEW INFO!


I dont know if I should cry or be grateful....


Just got some new information this morning.

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Registered: 07-28-2010
Tue, 08-03-2010 - 10:19am

Let him go, if he really wanted you 100%, way back when he would have not dated. I know you told him it was ok, but if his heart was tied to you, all would have fell flat, and he would not have kept going back.

In a sense you gave him permission, to play the field. Maybe he wants to tie up enough loose ends, to let his freedom go. But the flags I see make me wonder if he REALLY wants to commit now that the time is closing in...?

Take this time to REALLY LOOK at what you want. Are you leaving marriage for AP or YOU? If AP and you do not make it, are you going to be happy alone?

Best of Luck,
Sunny

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Registered: 07-29-2010
Tue, 08-03-2010 - 11:31am

Sunny~


These are very good questions....