Well I'm glad we have this forum to talk about all of this. Because I didn't know if I was the only one who goes thru NC sometimes. And for the people who don't, they're all like "my MM would never do that". Well, never say never. For me, we talk just about every workday several times a day on the computer. Used to be actual phone calls, but its long distance for us. But he usually keeps very regular contact with me. And I know he cares about what happens to me, my home life, etc.
But sometimes stuff gets in the way (that's what he says anyways). I just try to remind myself, we have a good thing going on, and he knows it too. And things aren't going to change so drastically for him that he's going to change his mind about seeing me ever again. I mean, no miracles have happened in my home!! And then when he got ahold of me, the first thing he said was he wanted to know how I was doing. And he was sorry for staying away so long.
Anyways, its just nice to vent/compare stories, commiserate with others going thru the same thing!! Take care,
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But sometimes stuff gets in the way (that's what he says anyways). I just try to remind myself, we have a good thing going on, and he knows it too. And things aren't going to change so drastically for him that he's going to change his mind about seeing me ever again. I mean, no miracles have happened in my home!! And then when he got ahold of me, the first thing he said was he wanted to know how I was doing. And he was sorry for staying away so long.
Anyways, its just nice to vent/compare stories, commiserate with others going thru the same thing!! Take care,
Dusty
That happened to me last week. He calls me on his way home. Which gives us about
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