Never thought I'd be on this board....

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Registered: 10-02-2003
Never thought I'd be on this board....
Tue, 05-11-2004 - 4:08pm
Here's the situation: I have been thinking of leaving my boyfriend of three years for a while now. We live together, so breaking up isn't exactly "easy." (But when is it easy, really?) Anyway, here's the PROBLEM: I am finding myself very attracted to another man. And not just any other man, but someone important to me and boyfriend - I'd rather not say how. (He's not a friend, more of a business associate). I've spent some time talking to this man about how I feel about my current boyfriend, but have not yet let on how I feel about him. I am so confused. It's been a LONG time since someone has sparked my interest this much. When I talk to him I feel like he is telling me things i have always wanted to hear from a man. He is at a place in his life that I have been wishing my boyfriend would get to. What should I do? I'm thinking of ACTING on this, which is really confusing and makes me feel guilty. But I also don't want to let this guy slip away from me because of my current boyfriend, who I don't think is going to give me what I need any time soon.

HELP!