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| Mon, 12-29-2003 - 5:40pm |
Hi new to the board.. been flirting with a MW sister in law.. she is older than me.. but has been giving me vibes that she would like more.. i really like her.. and I am a MM.. we can keep things underwraps..we have been talking online for a long time and I would love to move to the next level.. I spend alot of my day thinking about her .. anyone with any thoughts they can shre with me?
thanks.. L.
thanks.. L.

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please think seriously about backing off this potential family disaster. of course, the two of you taking the flirting "to the next level" would be fun for a bit, but eventually the rollercoaster emotions of an A will get to one or both of you and start to cause problems. that's a given! so, as another poster said on one of those other threads, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE - THE OTHER WAY!!
good luck,
gurl
L
be very, very careful!!
gurl
Edited 2/17/2004 9:58:01 PM ET by gurlfriend50
L
be very, very careful!!
gurl
My cousin Marie's H slept with her sister Julie, it completely destoyed their marriage, both of cousins, the kids, the whole family - everyone - literally - this happened 5 years ago and I'm beginning to realize nothing will ever be the same again. I know the attraction is so incredibly unbearable but if you have any love for your wife or her family then I would say don't do it. And if you don't have love for your wife then leave her and then hook up with SIL.
Both of my cousins are still in counseling as are Marie's 2 dd's. And all because he couldn't say no. I guess all affairs have the potential to do this - but when it's happens within a family the repercussions are so much worse.
Good Luck
Haley
L
and being a man, i imagine you ARE thinking about pursuing this further since you just got the green light from the lady, but seriously, slow it down and really and truly think about it. if this A proceeds and you and she have a few of those "private" conversations at family gatherings, it won't take much for someone to observe the space invasions people who are intimate experience when they are together and there will be gossip and talk, which will, in turn, lead to more intense observation of the two of you and god knows what else! it could get very very ugly and end up costing both of you alot more than you bargained for. and especially if the A ends badly and you both have to be around each other when you're hurt, angry, whatever!
it's a powder keg with a short fuse!
gurl
L
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