New Affair - Help!

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Registered: 05-14-2004
New Affair - Help!
Fri, 05-14-2004 - 2:33pm
So I have been talking to this guy who I have been friends with for the past 6 months or so. I have known him for 6 years and we ended up running into each other one night and I invited him and few other people over, well everyone left and one thing led to another. He is not married but has a serious gf who he intends to ask to marry him this year. Since the first night we have began talking everyday and hanging out here and there. Well lately I feel like I want more than what he's giving me, but he has this serious gf that he tells me he loves and wants to marry (but i think he only tells me this to make me jealous). I think he wants to marry her for financial security and so that he will not be alone. I want more from him but don't want to be pushy, any suggestions how to get him? Or should I just stop talking to him all together - but thats really hard for me to do since i like him? HELP!