I don't want to burst your bubble, but, seriously, one month? I really think you should pull your head out of the clouds a bit and, like Tygersize said, slow the thing down. Fact is, you only know one side of him. You may be "dating", but it's not the same as dating in real life. Affairs are just different animals altogether. You mentioned that you've had some before, so you should know this by now. I don't want to rain on your parade, but if your AP is anything like most, the chance that he's going to leave his marriage are pretty slim. Not impossible, but pretty darn slim.
it's only been ONE month..take your time is all i say...just slow down and take your time...please...
my relationship with BF/AP developed very consistantly...
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss