new to board and affair

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-18-2003
new to board and affair
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Mon, 03-01-2004 - 8:14am
Hi I'm Renee.I've been with my common law spouse for going on 17 years.I just started my affair last week.OM is a freind of ours.I know I shouldn't but the connection is there.It's very hot between us.

Right now he's feeling guilty and giving me the cold shoulder.But part of that is because he told me a little too much emotion the other night.OM is a tough streetwise kind of guy.Showing that emotion was a no no.Basically let on he has deeper feelings .

Background info is my dh is disabled.We have a great sex life but I had never been with anyone non disabled.I had a stroke at 15 so I have disabilities too.

I'm not sure where my feelings are.I've known the OM for 3 or 4 yrs.So I knew him first before there was sex.I know I miss him and want to take care of him when he's not around.

I hesitated before posting but If I didn't get it out I'll go nuts.

Thanks

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-21-2004
Mon, 03-01-2004 - 8:32am
Welcome to the board. I know how you feel when you think you'll just burst inside. No worries, dear, we're all in the same boat!