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| Fri, 01-30-2004 - 1:00pm |
I've just found this board and it feels like such a huge relief to have found somewhere I can explain all of this. For about 7 weeks now I have been involved in an affair with my husband's best friend. We've known each other for several years and have always flirted and this happened out of the blue. He left his wife briefly over the new year but went back because he can't bear the thought of losing his kids. He's told me he loves me and that the reason he's staying with her, other than his boys, is because he knows we can't be together. He is so wonderful. He calls every morning. We email constantly through the day and the sex is better than I ever thought possible. I love being with him and we both know it's much much more than physical. The trouble is though that I also love my husband. Our sex life has had some problems but we're working on them. I'm completely in love with two men for very different reasons and in different ways but I don't want to lose either of them. And it drives me crazy that I can't be with both of them. His wife has had her suspicions and now acts strangely when I'm around - odd looks and a lot of obvious affection - constantly kissing and touching him and never letting him out of her sight. I don't feel guilty of my affair because it feels so right, but it's driving me crazy that I can't tell anyone. What do you do when you love two men and want to be with both of them?

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hi fleur and welcome to the board!
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
hello newday and welcome to the board.
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board