New to board.. recently divorced after A
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New to board.. recently divorced after A
| Thu, 12-11-2003 - 5:56pm |
I am new to this board... had the big A right under my H nose in September while we were on vacation in my hometown.... had been contemplating leaving him for 6 mos or better and realized that if I was that driven to someone else than I really needed to get out.I left H immediately after A and am already divorced... thought he would fight for me, but he just let me go...must have been what he wanted too... He now realizes that I was messing around with OM ... I never came out and admitted it, but he's figuring things out now..I really care about OM... I have known him for 15 yrs or better, but not sure if it will work out... Everyone thinks I left my H for OM, but I think I would have left him regardless, but my actions in September made me feel like I had no choice. Now I am seeing OM exclusively, but wonder if this relationship is destined for failure. He feels really guilty about how we got together and his ex wife did same thing to him 5 yrs ago... so sometimes I think he sees all of her bad qualities in me...if it lasts will anyone truly accept the relationship I am in now????

Edited 3/10/2004 5:00 pm ET ET by geek_chic