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| Sun, 08-29-2010 - 8:00am |
It was a big step for me when my affair went from EA to PA.
| Sun, 08-29-2010 - 8:00am |
It was a big step for me when my affair went from EA to PA.
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Usually, when it's truly a case of falling out of love and having no feelings anymore, people (especially the spouse) will suggest marriage counseling. When there really is no AP, MC often does wonders, even when you think there's no love anymore. Without the "whole picture", that's probably what your H is going to want and he will have high hopes that you'll be able to get through it with MC. It will be awful for him and for you because he'll sense that there's more but he won't really know what he's up against, and you will be going through the motions of MC with no intention of making your marriage work.
I could be wrong and your H might be one of those people who doesn't believe in counseling. But be prepared for that possibility!
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
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Nic I always think its a HUGE mistake to leave your M for your AP. If your M is truly over (and as Lexi said I think you should try MC first), then be on your own for a while.
Only end the M if the M is over. Dont end it to be with someone else- i think its a mistake!
After being on your own for a while, then you can decide if you love AP enough to build a life with him. You need to take it just like dating and starting afresh.
Just my thoughts.
Does H know that you are unhappy?
I’ve voiced my dissatisfaction with our marriage on a number of occasions.
Anyone else have a response not show up?
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
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I've been thinking about your comments.
It’s a tough decision.
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