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| Fri, 11-14-2008 - 8:33pm |
Okay please someone tell me if I am totally going to ruin everything.
| Fri, 11-14-2008 - 8:33pm |
Okay please someone tell me if I am totally going to ruin everything.
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OMG, girls, what a sad stories...real drama, real pain, I feel for you and my heart goes out for everyone being hurt by A madness. I consider myself lucky, I got out of this crap so soon and basically with minimal damage...I kicked him to the curb, did not let him ruin my self esteem, my pride and my feeling of self worth. Jenimall, stay out of this mess, it will help nothing in your life! We all know this feeling of rush, feeling feminine and powerful, sexy and beautiful, especially after being M for number of years and neglected as women as home, you crave that feeling. But price will be too high.
I have to agree that even sex was not worth it. My AP was nothing special in bed at all. My H was bigger and better, much better. If you take sex out of equation, what's left then?
Sobbing on a floor, crumbled, OMG, this is so painful even to imagine! Me sitting by fireplace with my Merlot, dressed up in sexy laces and deeply insulted after my lover left, is really nothing, and I thought myself so wronged!
(((Hugs to all))), you know what I just thought? We all have to meet in person and start some kind of a club!
Angry Vivacious
Hi Viv,
I would like to tell you that the past two days have been much better for me.
Hey you guys thank you I wish I knew if I could just make this a one nite thing but already I like his personality and stuff so I know it will be hard to make it just about sex.
How would you feel if your husband did all of the things that you have done? That is, if he put a fake profile on a site and played around only asking for sex, gave his e-mail address to another woman, met her, and planned a one-night stand with her? Think carefully about how that'd make you feel and if that'd jeopardize the way you feel about your husband and the relationship you have with him.
Now, do you want to risk making your husband feel that way? If the answer is "yes", then you probably don't love him very much and perhaps it's time for some changes in your life that are greater than planning a one-night stand. At the very least, you have to work on why you want to have an affair. What is missing in your life? If you really want freedom, then you should ponder a divorce, or, discuss having an open marriage with your husband so that both of you have an understanding and can discreetly (and safely) pursue other partners.
Hi Jeni -
A little late here - and it sounds like you have made some good decisions - but I just wanted to chime in to say I totally understand how it feels to work on yourself (congrats on everything you have done - btw) - and have your H still be stuck in their old bad habits - and unwilling to change.
It was that exact situation that 4 years ago led me to leave my M - get a D - and then a year later find the man who truly is the love of my life (unfortunately - he was still M at the time - he has since left his M too - another story for another day).
Hey Tgr,
I deleted him from my msn messenger and when he emailed me on Monday I sent back a email telling him not to take this the wrong way but NOT to email me anymore that what we are doing is wrong.
Jenimall,
It makes me so happy to see this, that you were able to walk away before it turned into something you
Listen to the voices here... yup -- you could very well ruin your life.
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