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| Fri, 04-02-2004 - 5:28am |
HI! Just found this place a few days ago and Have been lurking...
Wanted to say HI & hope I can share my thoughts and get some support
too! This seems like a great place!
MyGoodTime~
Wanted to say HI & hope I can share my thoughts and get some support
too! This seems like a great place!
MyGoodTime~

Yep, you can share whatever you like. After about two weeks here, I can suggest to you that you probably haven't done anything that *someone* here hasn't done at least once.
As for support, I've never known a more supportive group of people. You don't get away with murder here, that's not it. There is definitely some calling out on those who try to BS or casually justify things away. Most everyone here seems interested in honest, sincere sharing of ideas and experiences, so if you're up front and considerate, I'm sure you'll find the insights here invaluable.
Personally, I'm incredibly thankful that this site was put in my path by the Powers That Be (how's that for a non-denominationally vague reference to a deific entity?) I found these people just when I needed them most, and I'm very thankful.
Feel free to tell your story and get us all up to date.
rain
Thanks for the Welcome!
You just confirmed my thoughts about this place seems like a great place to be!
My Story Lets see oh where do I begin???
Lets see I am M involved with a MM for about 2.5 yrs.
It was not something I was looking for,it kinda fell in my lap sorta speak...
we have a mutual friend and she passed on my e-mail addy and we spend lots of time
e-mailing and such, I guess laying down the ground work expectations and such considering we are both married and have kids the family oblligations and last min cancelations, are understood, not saying that they dont hurt or disappoint or anything but... that seems to
be the way EMA go...And we both understand that neither one of us are going to leave our M's,or anything...I am lucky in the respect that we basically have daily contact via cell phone and e-mail and at least once a week we meet up.I really have a lil more freedom than him so I am usually the one looking for more of his time, between work and family stuff its hard really hard and where I am from we definately can not be seen together or anything like that...
thats it basically in a nut shell...
feel free to ask me anything I will be as honest as I can,and i usually say what i think without being asked ....lol a downfall but basically just trying to be happy....
thanks again for the welcome ...
MGT
life
It sounds like you are happy with things right now. That's really great. But we are here for each other in the tough times too. Nice to meet you!
Dusty
Yeah I put on a great face ... but that dont mean things are any easier that its all on the table.... well most of it .... after 2.5 yrs I still go into that why hasnt he called
the ups and downs... the big problem is we were so up front and honest in the begining & after some horrible termoil about 6 months in to the R I wore my heart on my sleeve and said thoes 3 words that I vowed would not happen and BAM in my face was a big ol Thank You! and since then I keep my heart behind a wall.... And some days it hurts and some days it dont... Some days I wanna grab him by the throat and say Ilove you but lets not freak out over it and get all stupid its just the way I feel... no expectations or anything and then that nice ol thank you rings in my head ....
but hey today I am having a up day .... and with any luck an up evening lol
MGT
this seems like a good place for me ....
I wont bore and repeat myself but I have posted my story and then some...LOL
thanks again
MGT