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| Thu, 08-21-2003 - 4:56pm |
I never thought I'd find myself in this kind of a situation. I have been having an A with a MM from work. Our meetings have been sporadic, but have become more frequent. I've tried to stop seeing him, but I'm having a really hard time getting him out of my mind. Especially because I see him at work occassionally. If anyone ever caught us I'm sure I'd be fired because he's an officer in the company. I haven't been with him in 3 weeks because we've both been busy, but I'm about to lose my mind. I'm thinking about marching into his office right now to see if he'll make plans to see me tonight. I don't want to be the one to pursue this, but I can't help it. I don't think I'm in love with him, but more in love with the secret relationship (well, and great sex)!
I'm really glad I'm not alone in this.

I know you don't want to
pursue him, but perhaps he's
waiting for a little sign from
you? I don't know! You know, I
never really thought I'd actually
have an A on my H, but I did
think of it often... Are you married
or single? Anyways, welcome:) ~passion
I'm single, but he's been married for 15 years. He said he's been "bad" before, but never anything like this.
Hey Sher, glad you found us. I'm also having an A with a MM who's a co-worker. BE CARFULE! We have only be at this a month or so, and we already have the whole workplace talking, speculating, and gossiping. OMG, they have called in two people to the Managers office and HR has been called. I have just seperated from my H and MM is in the process of the same. He is not really concerned with people finding out and I just can't get enought of him so we have made some not so smart choices as far as showing affection for each other at work. When this dose come out,( and it's going to because we want to be together )he will have to step down a position or transfer to another location. I hope the first one because I would hate to not see him everyday at work. Sooo, moral of the story, they always say the #1 thing to NOT do is fall for someone at work... certain people live for this type of stuff to gossip about, but I would'nt change a thing personally.
AKA
Is great sex worth your job? Of what you posted, that would be my concern. You can find great sex in other places and with other people, but how important is your job to you? What are your options if you lose it?
Just be careful - for yourself.
-lily
We're getting together later this afternoon....