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| Thu, 10-02-2008 - 11:06am |
Hi everyone,
I have been reading this board for a month trying to figure out what is going on in my life.

Hi welcome to the board,
First if that is your real name at the bottom I would remove it, you never know who else is lurking and reading. :). Dazed I say you need to probably back off of this, it sounds to me like the beginning of an A. The rule of thumb is if you would not want your H to hear or see what you are doing then it pretty much is an A. I can relate a little to your situation as I went back to school at 28 while I was with my H. For me looking back I felt some attraction to the guys but I think maybe it was just the excitement of being back in school. Kind of made me feel young again. KWIM? Often times as us gals get into our 30's we become restless. For some it passes, for others it changes our life. You say you and your H are different people, do you see anyway of getting back to each other? If so work on it 12 years is a long time. Step bakc from your friend until you figure out what you want. The exciting feelings situations like this bring often times cloud our judgment and we make hasty and rash decisions. Please keep posting.
Thanks for replying so fast.