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|Wed, 07-16-2014 - 4:59pm|
Finally I found the forum I was looking for. I feel so alone, not being able to talk to anyone about this and hope to find here understanding and support. My story is so typical, it's probably boring. Both I and my AP are married for about 20 years, with kids. He is 8 years older than me. We started as friends that were meeting once a week in the park for workouts. After getting to know him I realized I was very much in love. For 6 months we've been meeting there, flirting, talking, enjoying each others company. When meetings in the park become impossible, we had the TALK, when we said we were attracted to each other and wanted to go all the way. Usually I get guilt very easily...but in this case- I'm too much in love to even feel guilty about not feeling guilty. It's been 2.5 months since our first time, we meet once a week/2 weeks.
He and his W don't really communicate and basically live separate lives, it was this way before we met and has nothing to do with me. Now, of course, I have the dream of spending the rest of my life with him, but currently I'd be happy to know this A is a long term one. So...based on the facts that the sex is amazing for the both of us and that I'm trying really hard not to be needy, not to have the "relationship talks" , keep light and sweet, the fact that he's very nice to me, do you think this can be a long term A?