New here, from EAS

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Registered: 09-07-2008
New here, from EAS
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Wed, 09-10-2008 - 9:33am

Hi everyone!
Started by posting my story in EAS (in case you want to have a read: http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlending&msg=25291.1&ctx=1024)
then I found MAS and thought that I am so stupid that I am not prepared to go to EAS yet :(
I am in that solid addiction phase and I just can't get this man out of my head. Just wanted to give you all a hug and hope that we all make the right decision at the right time.
Having an affair is painful as heck but while some days I feel this pain other days I am so so happy to be with AP. I wish we could explain why we do these things.

hugs,

Charlotte

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Registered: 06-15-2007
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 10:10am

Welcome Charlotte.

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Registered: 07-29-2008
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 11:56am

Welcome Charlotte,


My

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Registered: 09-07-2008
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 12:03pm
Thank you for your words, addicted2mya and good luck to you. Hugs
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Registered: 10-11-2007
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 3:04pm

I understand what it's like believe me...come here and talk..it's great and helps a lot..


Apple

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Registered: 03-01-2008
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 4:27pm
I think the "why do we do it?" is an important aspect of this.

 

 

 

 

 

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Registered: 08-19-2008
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 8:41pm

I read part of your post on the EAS board. Although I didn't read all of it because it was too long, I got the gist that you were not happy in your M, had the talk with your H and he is trying to change to accommodate your wishes. But, in the meantime you met your AP.

Adding an A to your life now is NOT going to repair the problems in your M. You have a lot to think about, work to do and serious decisions to make. You're just temporarily putting a band-aid on your problem by having an A. That is very dangerous and have the potential of devastating your family. Is your feel good in your A worth the price to pay for the pain you will likely cause your H and kids? Not to mention the pain of the A roller-coaster ride.

Although this is an A support board, we advocate that people exhaust all their options in making their M work first. If that turns out to be futile, then maybe get a D before starting another R.

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Registered: 06-20-2008
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 9:45pm
Charlotte you may try ON THE FENCE (2 folders down). This is a place between MAS and EAS>