New here, on the fence

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Registered: 09-03-2008
New here, on the fence
Wed, 09-03-2008 - 12:54pm

I was contacted by an old flame on myspace after not seeing him for about 10 years. Last time we met, I was hurting because bf at the time had cheated. We slept together and it was so passionate and just amazing. Stupid me went back to the bf and cut ties with this guy. I've tried over the years to look this man up, but no success.

Fast foward to now, been with DH for 8 years, just married in last year and have 2 kids. Almost 2 years ago I decided to leave him, but he saw the light and did a 180. Life has been just average life. Sex is the same all the time. I have little desire for monotony. I used to be a very sexual person. Old flame and I have chatted and I would give my left eye to be with him again. He told me that I am 'the one that got away' and has thought of me a lot over the last 10 years. Thinking about him makes my pulse race. We both want this, and want it to be purely sexual, me being married and him in a long term live-in relationship.

Advice? Ideas? Suggestions?
TIA!
Velvet voice...what Old flame told me i still have, thought it was a suitable name :)