New here - intro

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-16-2008
New here - intro
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Tue, 12-16-2008 - 10:15pm

Hi all.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-26-2007
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 11:12pm

Welcome to the board!!!! Thanks for reading and sharing your story. I was the one who did the first move in A (even though I do not remember it because i was drunk) but I do not know why i did it untill today....You asked lots of questions and that's good, hopefully, you will find your answers. When my first A ended ( somewhat ugly), overall, I did not regret having it....and will not regret this one. Let me tell you what you gain from A : confidence, romance, attention, good sex, excitement, happiness....however, all this can be taken by the same person who makes you feel so wonderful. Ask yourself: Do you feel guilt? Would you leave your BF for your AP ? Would you leave your BF if you have no other man in your life? Is there any factors, such as money, keeping you together. One advice I can give you is do not get your hopes too high.....I bet you've heard about " Men never leave their wives for other women". I myself do not know whether it is 100 or 99 % true, but in many cases I know of, it is a very valid statement....I do not know how open and straightforward your AP is, can you sit down and talk to him about A and how it will "run". I am so glad that my AP made it clear he has no intations of leaving his W or

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2008
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 11:41pm

Miss,


Welcome to the board!

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2008
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 11:48pm

Boo:


I'm not sure if I understood correctly but... from affairs you do not gain confidence (maybe you did in yours) but I'm pretty sure most would agree that they're level of confidence and self-esteem lowers.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-26-2007
Wed, 12-17-2008 - 8:01am

Hello Lostintrasition, not sure if i was clear but i meant to say was