New here - introduction

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-13-2009
New here - introduction
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Sun, 09-13-2009 - 8:51pm

Hello,

I just wanted to introduce myself. I've been in an affair with my AP partner for 3 years in January. We are both married, me for 15 years, with 3 children. He has been married for 30 years with 2 grown children and 2 grandchildren.

I met AP when I was hired to be his assistant, needless to say we hit it off even with the 16 years age difference. We flirted shamelessly, met for drinks a couple of times and found ourselves in his hotel room the first night of a training event. The whole week ended with us sharing a hotel room and having one that went unused. Almost 3 years later, we get together once a month for dinner and drinks, and sometimes we meet for dinner, drinks and a roll around a hotel room bed.

I no longer work for AP, put we still find time once a month to get together. We've even spent a weekend in Mexico together and a week-end at a cabin. We touch base weekly via txt messages and speak on the phone once every 2 weeks. We both have made it clear that we are not leaving our spouses, and we try to keep our relationship light and fun.

In a nut shell, with out giving to my detail, that's me. :) I look forward to getting to know people on this board and sharing both the great times and the bad times with you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-28-2004
Sun, 09-13-2009 - 11:09pm

Welcome to the board who_what.


I was wondering, are you in love with your AP? Have you guys expressed feelings for one another?