New Here - My Story - VERY LONG

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Registered: 08-24-2010
New Here - My Story - VERY LONG
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Tue, 08-24-2010 - 9:52am

I have lurked here for a while and decided that I needed somewhere I could talk freely as I have not spoken to anyone besides my AP about this.


I have known my AP for 20+ years.

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Registered: 04-21-2008
Tue, 08-24-2010 - 12:21pm
(HUGS) and welcome to the board. :)

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Registered: 04-27-2010
Tue, 08-24-2010 - 12:55pm

Hi, daisygirl, and welcome :) Glad you found us. It is NICE to have a place to talk to others in similar situations.

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Registered: 03-29-2010
Wed, 08-25-2010 - 9:38am

Yup, facebook is evil! LOL!

Welcome daisy. You are very wise not to talk to ANYone in your real life about this. Even best friends have a way of becoming very judgmental about affairs. Also, they may leak it to a really good friend of theirs who will leak it - etc. - until it might reach someone who knows your H better than they know you - and then you've got a d-day coming. Better to keep it to yourself. But you've found us here and we can help you through it all! Glad you've joined us, and looking forward to seeing more from you.

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Registered: 08-24-2010
Wed, 08-25-2010 - 9:41am
Thank you all for the support, it feels so much better today to have said this out loud after holding it in for so many months, I was going crazy.